Perfume is such a personal thing – it’s like a little piece of someone’s vibe in a bottle. Just like we all have that one sweater that feels so us but kind of loses its magic when someone else is wearing the exact same one.

That’s because how a perfume smells isn’t just about the bottle – it’s about you. Your skin, your body chemistry, even the weather can change how a scent wears. We’ve all had that moment: you try something in-store, fall in love with it, and a few hours later… it’s giving “not me.”

So if you’re thinking of buying her a perfume but don’t know what she actually likes, there’s a pretty good chance that bottle might end up in the back of her drawer. 

How to Gift Perfume Like a Pro

So, before you rush out to grab any old perfume off the shelf, let’s understand how to actually make this a winning gift.

Know Her Scent Preferences

Pay attention to what she talks about when it comes to fragrance. Is she into floral, woody, or fresh notes? Does she ever mention a perfume she loves? These are your golden clues. Ask subtle questions, like, “What’s your go-to scent?” or casually share your own opinions and see if she bites. This helps you figure out if she likes deep, spicy scents or something lighter and airier.

Avoid the Full-Sized Bottle, Unless You’re Sure

Seriously, don’t go for the big bottle unless you know she’ll love it. A travel-sized perfume option or a discovery set is a way safer bet. It gives her the chance to try it out without committing to a full bottle she might never wear. If she loves it, then you’re in the clear for the next gift. And remember, always ask her opinion – don’t be shy!

Make It Meaningful

Gifting perfume is all about the emotional connection. Pick a scent that has meaning behind it. For example, a rose scent could symbolize love or a fragrance with a hint of vanilla might be a nod to comfort and warmth. Personalize the story behind the gift. A woman will always appreciate a thoughtful gesture like that.

Perfume Picks She’ll Love

If you're still stumped about what to get, here are some fragrances from Hayati New York that will have her swooning:

1 - Jasmin al-Jazeera

• Why she might fall for it: There’s jasmine, yes, but it’s not the overly sweet kind – it’s clean, warm, and a little unexpected, like the scent version of a good conversation that lingers in your head for days.

• When it makes sense: Not tied to an occasion. It works when she wants to feel a bit more herself – whether that’s staying in, working late, or showing up slightly overdressed and not apologizing for it.

2 - Habibi Albi Oud

• Why it might click: This one doesn’t try to be likable – it just is. Deep, resinous, and a little smoky, but in a way that feels comforting rather than intense. It’s the scent equivalent of a late-night deep conversations with your lover.

• When it makes sense: Best for moments that feel too quiet or too loud –when she wants something that grounds her. Think winter candle light dinner, after-dark city walks, and the most romantic playlist you could think of.

3 - English Rose

• Why it’s not what you’re expecting: There’s rose, sure – but it’s not old-fashioned, not soapy, and definitely not frilly. This one’s breezy and fresh. It smells like someone who’s figured out softness doesn’t mean weakness.

• When it makes sense: Early mornings, stretched-out Sundays, low-key plans that end up being your favorite memory of the week.